Monday, February 19, 2024

Bloomington goes to bat for IRPC, Part 2

Point 3: Third-party help

I don't really think Bloomington really knows what they asking for here, or worse, maybe they do. When there is a case of sexual abuse within an organization, professionals hired will investigate using a victim-centric approach. That is the standard being adopted by criminal investigators. For example, the Larry Nassar case was investigated using a victim-centric approach that led to his conviction, and justice for the victims. When organizations are not interested in a victim-centric approach, they often hire "independent investigators", whose independence is almost certainly in doubt. In other words, organizations who want to cover over abuse, usually hire a reputation management firm, who will bully victims into signing NDA's, threaten them with legal actions if they "gossip" and otherwise work to clear the "good name" of the organization. These can be easily investigated, for example, the GRACE investigation of Bob Jones University was cancelled when GRACE started uncovering patterns of abuse. Other organizations, like Doug Wilson/CREC have hired firms to litigate what they consider to be gossip.

So, yes, third-party help is something that the RPCNA should leverage, but what they need is unlikely what Bloomington would recommend, as we will find in the next point we will cover. Just keep in mind that the key piece that distinguishes a reputable firm is the approach they take - abuser-centric or victim-centric. The abuser-centric approach is about silencing victims and restoring the reputation of the organization, while the victim-centric approach is about understanding the extent of the abuse and those who allowed it to happen and continue.

Point 5: Borrowing the language or forms of the world in place of Biblical Christianity

One of the great ways to make a point that isn't rational or coherent is to revert to logical fallacies. One of the great fallacies in Evangelicalism (not equivocation this time) is the genetic fallacy. So, here, they label a victim-centric approach as originating in the world, and thus distorted and wrong. What they don't say is what they have to offer, which is, most likely, an abuser-centric approach. We see this later as they lament that Jared's "restoration committee" (excuse me while I throw up) was stymied in their efforts by the shocking fact that maybe the victims thought he shouldn't be returned to office.

But, how worldly, exactly, is the victim-centric approach? We see that USA Gymnastics and MSU Police took the same approach as Bloomington seems to suggest, towards Larry Nassar. They took complaint after complaint, went and talked with Nassar (abuser-centric) and after he talked them down, they buried the complaints and went on. Child after child was molested by Nassar because they took the "Good Ole' Boy's approach to investigation. What brought Nassar to justice was a prosecutor whose motto was three words, "Start by Believing". She believed Rachael Denhollander and that led to the investigation and prosecution of Larry Nassar. That is how "two witnesses" is treated in the RPCNA. A single person coming with an accusation against an elder is, at best, ignored. More likely, that person is threatened and silenced.

Who else took a victim-centric approach. Perhaps Jesus? Jesus told Peter, "feed my sheep" - he didn't say build an in-crowd of like-minded people and circle the wagons whenever they are accused. The elders in the Old Testament are warned because they did not protect, heal and feed the sheep. Instead they fed on them.

So, it really bothers me when a session comes in and says that a sheep-centric approach is somehow sinful. Maybe they mean something more nuanced, but given the history of the GLG, I highly doubt it. Roy Blackwood covered over sexual abuse within the Gothard organization for decades and retired a hero. Keith Magill hid child sexual abuse at Southside and was hailed a hero. IRPC would have done the same thing, with Jared, Keith and David likely continuing their untarnished reputation if it hadn't been for public scrutiny.

This quote is flat out shocking!
The term [victim-centric] is freighted with meaning—e.g., that one who has suffered sexual sin should be styled a “victim” and, further, that the desires of the victim ought to be preferred in the process of adjudication; and that normal due process rights might need to be bent, in order to avoid “retraumatization.” Notably absent from the “victim-centered” approach in criminal justice are ideas central to Christianity—e.g., the duty of forgiveness or the sufficiency of God’s grace to wash away sin.

So, let's get this straight. Someone who is a "victim" of sexual sin is not a "victim"? Remember this is the SESSION of Bloomington. EIGHT men signed onto this document that says, there is no such thing as a victim. So, what exactly is someone who had a crime perpetrated against them?

So, this shows the true colors of the Bloomington session. The children who had crimes perpetrated against them, who will, most likely suffer the effects of sexual trauma for the rest of their lives (and I know this because I know a family who is going through the same thing, and yes, this child has ongoing effects of this trauma) are not the central part of this? WAKE UP!

So, let's understand what is central.
the SJC “declined to share [with the Olivetti Restoration Committee (ORC)] names of victim families…citing the families’ unease and hurt during the disciplinary processes of Synod”

Again, let's talk about perverted justice in NAPARC. Tullian Tchividjian uses his spiritual office to groom women towards sexual relationships. He sleeps with at least one of these women. He's deposed by the PCA and in the same breath, the PCA appoints a Restoration Committee to, presumably, figure out how to get poor old Tullian back into the pulpit. So, here in the RPCNA, you have a pastor whose relative raped kids in the church, abused his ordination to prevent accountability, insisted on his relative attending church and youth activities, and the important thing to the most wise and spiritually mature people at Bloomington is why the victims don't want to cooperate with the committee trying to put him back in the pulpit?

Can someone convince me that a victim-centric approach is unjust and unbiblical? I see little but good coming out of a victim-centric approach and little but evil coming out of a perpetrator-centric approach. What about good ole' Jamin Wight? Doug Wilson and Peter Leithart took a perpetrator-centric approach. They got him to confess (good), turned him over to the authorities (good), but then worked hard to get the judge to be lenient. They both sat next to him during parts of the trial, in solidarity. Guess who they didn't sit next to. Natalie Greenfield - the girl he raped. She was a member of Doug's church, and like what Bloomington wants to do, she never got to be the victim. Once he confessed, she was told to forgive him. It was over for her. In fact, like IRPC, Wilson credited this as a "homeschool teenage love affair" vs. "normal teenage hormones".

The approach was super-effective in bringing justice. (sarcasm). Instead of spending time in jail, Jamin went on probation, got married off by Wilson to a lucky woman he then beat and strangled.

So, when Blooming talks about "the duty of forgiveness or the sufficiency of God’s grace to wash away sin." What they mean is easy grace (sweeping sin and its consequences under the rug in the name of the appearance of peace) and telling victims to shove it in the name of God. That sounds so much more Biblical (sarcasm) than standing by those who have had injustices committed against them and expecting that the perpetrators will be assigned necessary consequences for their crimes.

In the course of the IRPC proceedings, one sometimes heard the opinion expressed that where there is truth, there can be no slander. However, this concept belongs to the civil law and is alien to Christianity.

By their claim, Jesus is guilty of slander. He called the Scribes and Pharisees, "hypocrites", "white-washed tombs", "blind guides", "sons of hell". They want to stick "love" in the 9th commandment (which they will get to later) and argue that anything "not loving" is a violation of the 9th commandment.

Of course, we know where this goes. If a Session calls the "Peace, Purity and Progress" website "hateful", that is certainly not hypocritically being 'unloving', because, of course, a Session could never be slanderous when telling their opinion that they believe to be true (i.e. holding the civil definition of slander), but when someone says something they don't like (even if it is the TRUTH that they don't like), then, of course, the civil law is somehow limited and anti-Biblical.

Do we see how all four points swirl around the message that somehow poor, poor Jared was martyred and made an example when he did no wrong, and really, it's all those evil victims and the evil courts of the church that had it out for him?

[Ironically, I believe the civil definition of slander is much closer to what I find in the Bible. How many times did God send the prophets to say an uncomfortable truth to a leader that the leader thought worthy of imprisonment, or death??? Couching this in ambiguous terms (here the ambiguity protects the abusers, not the victims) means that sessions have complete impunity in slandering members (remember that they get to decide what is slander), and likewise, complete impunity in disciplining members for saying things they don't want to hear.

4 comments:

BatteredRPSheep said...

Steve Rhoda, pastor of Terre Haute, IN RPCNA had this to say. https://glgpresbytery.org/uploads/2024-spring/GLG%2024-5.pdf

"However, one of the prosecutors ... had previously openly admitted in a blog article ... that he was abused as a child. This clearly should have led him to recuse himself from serving as a prosecutor in this case."
Rhoda rule #1, only narcissistic abusers can serve in judicial cases.

"For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things just as we are, yet without sin." (Heb 4:15)

I think it is of benefit to the church that the prosecutor understood this from a victim's perspective, just as we praise Jesus for having experienced life in real flesh, having been abused and hated.

"I believe the RPCNA has the responsibility, ... to develop our directory to address the sin of exposing church members, whether guilty or innocent, to a secular news media that serves the devil's delight in attacking the church."
Rhoda rule #2, members shall participate in all church efforts to hide the truth of their sin.

Again, I ask the RPCNA. WHY ARE THESE GUYS PASTORS???

"And this is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the Light; for their deeds were evil. For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light, so that his deeds will not be exposed. But the one who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that his deeds will be revealed as having been performed in God." (John 3:19-21)

"Now there was a widow in that city, and she kept coming to him, saying, ‘Give me justice against my opponent.’ For a while he was unwilling; but later he said to himself, ‘Even though I do not fear God nor respect any person, yet because this widow is bothering me, I will give her justice; otherwise by continually coming she will wear me out.’" (Luke 18:3-5)

Only the darkness hates the media. Just as they have been a tool of Satan in ridiculing Christian beliefs, they have also been a powerful tool in amplifying the voice of the oppressed. All human institutions, including the RPCNA has been used by Satan just as they have been used by God. A pastor who wants to hide the voice of victims in the church is a tool of Satan. The same can be said about a pastor who subsequently wants to commend parents and session for hiding the truth.

Stephen Rhoda should be charged for his violation of the ninth commandment, calling evil good and good evil, and administratively relieved of his ordination being someone who wants to suppress the truth in unrighteousness. His letter should be forwarded to the IndyStar with presbytery recommendation to be published, and with their response that as a true church, pastors who want to hide abuse will be forced to resign, just as Stephen was.

Black Sheep said...

I have wondered how to balance 1Timothy 5:19 (two or more witnesses) with the need to protect the flock from predators. So many abuse cases only come out because what happened to one person becomes known more broadly, which then encourages others to come forward. That means that many times there isn't "two or more witnesses" to a particular case, and the abuser takes advantage of that to continue the abuse. If you were on a church board of elders and a complaint of abuse (sexual or otherwise) from a single person came to you, what would you do?

BatteredRPSheep said...

Three things: one is that I've heard sermons that "witness" is not necessarily a person. If I believe an elder is engaged in some activity, and I investigate and find corroborating evidence, that is a second witness. Secondly, telling ones story truthfully, to the best on one's ability is NEVER slander. That is part of my objection to both papers, where they want to silence voices with church discipline for telling the truth. Lastly, I don't think "receive" equates to "listen". I believe the Bible is saying, don't convict an elder without evidence matching the OT process.
A lot of my reading of the NT has been transformed from "what new and magical meaning does this verse have?" to "is he just reiterating the same truth from the OT?" In this case, I believe it is the same as the OT requirements for conviction.

Anonymous said...

In response to your, "WHY ARE THESE GUYS PASTORS???", I agree, it is relatively easy to get through Seminar and become an RP pastor. There are MANY unfilled RP pulpits right now, so they are desperate. Many RP churches are just looking for warm bodies to fill positions, and that can even include elders. It's probably going to be harder to fill RP positions after this summer's Synod 2024, when they might ban female deacons.